Creating New Body Memories for Trauma Healing!

Have you ever flinched when someone touched your shoulder, or felt your chest tighten for no obvious reason? These reactions aren’t “all in your head”—they’re stored in your body. Known as body memories, these sensations are imprints left by unresolved trauma, encoded not in words, but in our tissues and nervous system responses.

Through somatic therapy, we can begin to rewrite traumatic memory—not by erasing the past, but by inviting the body into feeling, integrating and writing a new script for how we would like to live now.

What Are Body Memories?

Body memories are implicit, wordless experiences that live in the nervous system. You might notice them as:

  • A sudden freeze response during conflict

  • Startling easily at loud voices or unexpected touch

  • Persistent muscle tension or shallow breathing under stress

These are not flaws. They are survival strategies. Your body, doing its best to protect you, encoded trauma responses to help you avoid harm. The problem is that these protective patterns can get stuck, keeping you living a loop from the past, where the body still feels like the trauma is happening now.

Trauma Is Timeless—Until We Rewrite It

Unlike the mind, the nervous system has no sense of time. Without completing or healing thwarted fight, flight, or freeze (FFF) responses, trauma becomes “timeless.” That’s why something that happened years ago can still feel urgent, raw, and present, and we often reenact these unintegrated memories in our present in an unconscious attempt to heal them.

As trauma expert Peter Levine says:

“Conscious, explicit memory is only the tip of a deep iceberg… The submerged strata of implicit experience (or unconscious) move and motivate us in ways the conscious mind can only imagine.”

This is why talk therapy, while powerful, may not always be enough. The body remembers, even when the mind has moved on.

How Trauma Gets Stored in the Body

During a traumatic event, stress hormones flood the brain, disrupting the hippocampus (which organizes explicit memory) and ramping up the amygdala (which governs emotional memory). The result? Instead of a coherent narrative, we’re left with sensory fragments—sounds, smells, body sensations—frozen in time.

Psychiatrist Bessel van der Kolk explains:

“Traumatic experiences create powerful, isolated sensory fragments… fixed and static… carved into the brain, body, and psyche.”

These imprints don’t update easily. Without somatic or other related mind-body based therapies, they can continue to drive physical and emotional symptoms for years.

Rewriting Memory with Somatic Therapy

Somatic therapy reconnects you with the language of your body—sensation, breath, movement, and our felt or “gut sense”. It creates a bridge between the past and the present, helping you:

  • Recognize your body’s trauma signals without judgment

  • Invite in new bodily sensations

  • Re-pattern your nervous system over time

This isn’t about reliving trauma. It’s about rediscovering what safety feels like. Feeling into the body and reimagining new possibilities of our felt sense, images or movements, and embodying them, can create small shifts that repeated over time begin to rewire your body’s sense of safety. For example, relaxing your shoulders by 1%, taking one deep breath every hour, placing your hand over your heart when feeling overwhelmed, naming one sensation that feels good and anchoring it with a breath or gesture.

These shifts additionally support vagus nerve tone, aid in nervous system regulation, and help your body to update its story.

Your Body is Ready to Heal

Your body is not broken—it’s communicating about past experiences that are looking for healing now. Somatic therapy doesn’t bypass the mind; however, it does invite the body into the conversation. Rewriting traumatic memory is the process of reclaiming your body’s capacity for safety, joy, and connection, one sensation, breath, or completed impulse, at a time.

Ready to see what’s possible when you support new body memories to take root and guide life?

Join our Monthly Somatic Integrations, where we practice the rewiring of what our body knows into the potentials of what it yearns to be.

To explore this theme more in a brief video, plus a related somatic exercise, please click here!

Check out my guided meditation entitled, “Doorway to Embodied Love,” whose binaural beats supports increased memory, heightened awareness and mood stabilization by clicking here.

Why Gut Instincts & Intuition Get Confused

How Your Nervous System Shapes Intuition

Do you ever second-guess your intuition? That quiet, inner voice that whispers guidance about relationships, career moves, or life decisions. Sometimes you trust it. Other times, you wonder if it’s just fear, paranoia, or overthinking.

You’re not alone. Many people struggle to trust their inner guidance, especially if they’ve experienced trauma, stress, or difficult relationships. The truth is, there’s something fascinating happening inside your body that explains why this feels so complicated.

Your body is constantly scanning the world, reading environments, people, and situations, far below your conscious awareness. This survival system has kept humans safe for thousands of years.

But here’s the catch: when your nervous system is overwhelmed or dysregulated, its signals get confusing. Past experiences can shape how you interpret present-moment information. What feels like intuition may actually be a protective response. What seems like “overthinking” might actually be wisdom trying to break through.

Your inner guidance isn’t broken. The signals are simply mixed with old survival patterns your body learned along the way.

The Overlap of Protection and Wisdom

Few people realize this: the same parts of the brain that process survival responses also hold deep intuition and wisdom. This creates a tricky overlap. Protection and guidance can feel almost identical, making it hard to tell them apart.

The real challenge isn’t about “making better decisions.” It’s about learning to recognize the difference between authentic inner knowing and protective responses.

Why Traditional Advice Falls Short

You’ve probably heard phrases like “trust your gut” or “just listen to your heart.” That advice assumes your nervous system is already calm and regulated. But if you’re carrying unresolved stress or trauma, trying to force deeper listening can backfire.

Instead of clarity, you may feel:

  • Anxious or tense when making simple decisions

  • Doubtful of opportunities that others see as positive

  • Overwhelmed by too many choices

  • Tightness in the chest or shoulders when facing certain topics

  • Shallow breathing or physical discomfort around specific people

  • Oscillating between total certainty and complete self-doubt

Sound familiar? These are signs that your body is in protection mode, not wisdom mode.

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The Missing Piece: Nervous System Awareness

True intuition flows best when your body feels safe. When the nervous system is regulated, inner wisdom becomes clear, calm, and trustworthy.

That’s why the missing piece in most intuition practices is nervous system regulation. Creating safety in your body allows your deepest knowing to emerge naturally—without forcing or second-guessing.

Practices to Reconnect with Inner Wisdom

Rebuilding trust in your intuition often means working gently with the body. Some people find this through:

  • Somatic practices that regulate the nervous system

  • Mindfulness that creates space between stimulus and response

  • Integration work that unblocks stuck emotions and body patterns

These approaches help you separate protective survival signals from authentic intuitive wisdom.

Your inner guidance system hasn’t failed you. It’s been working overtime to keep you safe. With support, regulation, and practice, you can access the clear and grounded wisdom that’s always been there.

This process takes patience, compassion, and often community. But the reward—living from authentic inner knowing—changes not only how you make decisions, but also how you relate to yourself, others, and the world.

If you’re ready to explore what becomes possible when your body’s wisdom leads the way, join our Monthly Somatic Integrations.

Together, we practice:

  • Recognizing subtle body signals

  • Creating safety to access deeper wisdom

  • Distinguishing protection from intuition

  • Honoring both survival strategies and authentic guidance

When your nervous system feels safe, your intuition stops whispering, and starts speaking with clarity.

To enjoy a brief video on this theme, and learn another somatic exercise to support your gut instinct, click here!

To help yourself turn inwards and connect to your gut, listen to my guided meditation entitled, “Coming Home” by clicking here.

For a related blog on how our gut feedback (interoception) can support rewiring our nervous system, click here!